Thursday, September 8, 2011

The Art of Doing Nothing

It has taken a long time to adjust to a life where I have so far been fortunate enough not to have to work. For the first couple of years we were busy fixing up the boat but there were still times when I would get that feeling of redundancy, not sure what to do with myself. Back at home in the UK meant working 5-6 days a week, leaving the house at 7.30am and getting back almost 12 hours later. Keeping on top of house chores, socializing, exercising and shopping for food; all had to fit into these busy days, there was never time to do nothing. So stepping aboard and having to fill my own time for over 7 years now has been quite a task. Especially as although we have managed without working our monthly budget is very tight with both of us living on less than a 1/3rd of the average English wage back home. So trying to fill your time with things that are low cost can be very challenging. Off course we always have the option of coming home and earning a living but for the time being we are both quite content out here.

Which brings us to what do we do all day long. Having an occupation at home is exactly that. It is something that fills your time (as well as bringing in the obvious income). After the novelty and necessity of working on the boat wore off I found myself in some of the most beautiful islands in the world. In the San Blas off the coast of Panama I had crystal blue seas, hundreds of deserted islands to choose from and yet I didn’t know what to do with myself. With no way to communicate with people back home. No shops and no cultures to explore ashore left me feeling listless. Books were read and bread baked. Whole days were structured around fancy meals from our limited stores. I remember lying on the sofa bored out of my mind in a tropical paradise feeling that life was passing me by. And so I had to teach myself to snap out of the reverie and learn to keep busy or enjoy relaxing without feeling guilty about it. It’s not easy to change your ways over night but slowly Sim and I have stepped down a pace. We try to embrace hobbies and learn new things. But we also like to keep busy. Sim likes to keep up to date on changing technologies in engines and other mechanical things. I like the more crafty side of things. We both like to explore the countries and cultures we are in. And we like to hang out with our friends; on each others boats, at the beach, on walks or in the bar.

This last week has kept us quite busy; Friday nights down the Tikki Bar, Saturday afternoon at a hash (aggressive walk) through forest and pretty countryside to the north of St Georges. Sundays have been spent on the beach with snacks while we dip in and out of the sea. Monday morning saw us doing yoga on the beach. Tuesday had us over to Peter Pan for cake and Caribbean coffee (add rum) and then to the Tikki Bar for quiz night. Wednesday shopping and lunch in town for the girls. In between all this Sim helps on peoples boats and I try to write. So once again I find myself thinking how lucky and privileged I am to be here and wonder what I will do with my time this afternoon.

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